Monday, 29 April 2013

Anonymous said: He goes every year because one of his best friends moved there a while ago, I do tryst him weve been together almost 2 years, i just get worried when he goes because I'm so scared something will happen and I don't want to lose someone I care about so much

Aaww 2 years! Yes, try and trust him! I am hoping for you too and I’m sure nothing happened when he went the year before?



eloquentlyfashion said: Well I'm 5'9 and weigh 120 lbs and let me just start of by saying we do have a good thing going on but because there are so many other weights they can contribute to our hatred lets say 3/4 of the population was naturally thin I doubt there would be any controversy however that's not the reality. The reality is we are viewed as unhealthy and sick . I was once referred to as a corpse and do you know what's funny hot models like karlie and cara are skinny and adored so what just cos there models?

Those models are adored because of the way they are programmed to on magazines an ads - airbrushed, make up, made to look perfect. But I tell you one thing, if people saw them on the streets they would make comments about their skinniness. Because we look at them from the media view they are made to look perfect and ideal whereas this is far from our everyday lives.



Anonymous said: Everyone thinks I'm too skinny. Even my best friend thinks I'm unhealthy and she doesn't understand why I don't "get bigger". I eat pasta and rice and every carb-filled food in the book. I don't exercise. I couldn't "get bigger" even if I wanted to. I'm perfectly happy with my weight. I don't want to be any skinnier, though. This isn't really a question, more of a rant about how no one understands. This blog has really helped me accept myself. Thank you for that. I love you, keep it up :)

You are allowed to rant, my dear! And aaww, thank you! Love you too xx



Skinny Girl Stories: I love being thin now

i used to hate how skinny i always was..not “curvy, plump, cherubic, etc”. i longed for a soft fluffy body, big boobs, even force feeding myself last year and making myself sick..a few months later i was back down to my normal size 1 jeans and flat chest. lately though i’ve learned to love it! i love how small, dainty and petite i am, i think of myself and delicate and tiny now instead of “scrawny” or “akward” or “flat”. most of all i love how it makes me look so much younger, i can pass for 5 or 6 years younger thanks to my small chest, narrow hips, flat stomach. im no longer trying to look like a blow up doll to impress men, and i must say i’ve never been single long and PLENTY of men love skinny girls!! i wish more skinny girls knew that. men have different tastes, they don’t all want nicki minaj or kim kardashian or big “curves”. there’s a pot for every lid. if you love yourself, others will love you too :)

- submitted by anonymous


your-prolly-beautiful-cuz-i said: Don't get me wrong i love your blog but that thing with Jennifer Lawrence set me off. I understand that it's unfair the way skinny people are looked at. I'm skinnier than I would like to be also. But your being hypocritical and doing exactly what they do to us. Your saying "just bcuz w don't have curves doesn't mean that we're not beautiful and we are against anything that ever says curvy people are beautiful" I don't know if that is what your going for but it's what I'm getting.

Yeah. Your assumption is wrong. And also, if you look back into the context of that picture, Katniss is supposed to look underfed AND thin. She is trying to disassociate herself from that for what reason? And darling, it does not even matter that she is curvy or whatever, it matters that she is advertising a certain stigma. She might have a good heart but what she said leaves negative connotations that will lead young girls to believe that you cannot be healthy and thin. It’s like every thin woman in Hollywood will make little girls want to starve themselves because they look ‘underfed’.

I am going against media connotations with my body type which many celebrities such as Adele have fed into. I am allowed to do that and if you dislike the blog because of it, no problemo.

I repeat, it’s not because she is curvy, that did not even spring to my mind. She did not even mention her curves. It’s sad because you probably do not realise how the negative stigma attached to your body shape is slowly (if not already) perpetrating the media because of little things like this. Check the article section and find the article about why celebrities are often thin, and believe me, it’s not because they starve themselves or are ‘underfed’. Celebrities can simply be naturally skinny, invest highly in personal trainers and fitness and exercise, have the time and effort to eat heathy and naturally. Also the long time spent at work means less time to eat which doesn’t mean they force themselves not to eat. It comes with the nature of the job. It is also a personal choice to choose to be skinny. Not every thin celebrity in Hollywood starves themselves. Read the article here. http://theskinnygirlproblems.tumblr.com/post/46204286486/article-five-reasons-why-most-skinny-celebrities-are



Anonymous said: Ive been cheated on alot by almost all my boyfriends, I'm really scared because my boyfriend is in Vegas for 3 weeks, I don't think he's gonna be thinking of me much when there's a bunch of curvy or overall good looking girls who look so much better than me everywhere there. It doesnt help that I'm just a tiny girl with no boobs or anything sexy about her waiting for him here:/

I feel horrible for reading this. It makes me soo sad :(

Trust him. Maybe he is different. Why didn’t you join him in Vegas?? Unless he’s on a business trip in vegas he could have taken you along and enjoyed it together! Did he go with his friends?



seer-of-queer said: My dad told me boys were like dogs, men are pigs. Never dress yourself to please them, always stand for yourself, You are your own, and someone will love you whether you're big or small, thin or fat, Sweet or Sour.

That’s beautiful. Exactly. Tell your dad he is awesome!



Anonymous said: I've always been hating how I look.. It is so difficult for me to gain weight, i lost 10 lbs when i fell sick two years ago. After all this time, it's close to what it was but i look even more skinnier cz my height increased. I cry because of my weight. But yday when someone said, "dogs like bones, men like curves" I was all "so your body is for the pleasure of men.. thats nice" That shut her up!

CURVES. CURVES. CURVES.

Because skinny girls do not or cannot have curves.

”Dogs like bones, men like curves.” Sorry, I do not live for men, but rather for myself. You should try it sometime ;)



Anonymous said: The ability for me to express myself in this space is so healthy. thank you beautiful skinny woman

Awesome! Aaww, and thank you, gorgeous skinny woman yourself.



Anonymous said: Problem: So my best friend is a lil bigger than she would like, but she has HUGE boobs and just because I have a small waist she thinks guys are always looking at me when really they are drooling over her breast. It's so hard to not just punch her because when she isn't there all the guys talk about how great she looks and Im just like another guy to them... in those moment I don't know if I am more mad at her or them.

Lmaooo I’m sorry I had to laugh at ‘Im just like another guy to them”..

See, I love it when I receive messages from girls which include their own jokes about their own body. Y’know sometimes its just nice and healthy to laugh at the weaknesses and flaws of society.

You’re crazy lmao! You are a girl, silly! haha and also, it goes to show that no one is ever satisfied about their own bodies, they always long for something different. Hmm, I choose be mad at no one. Just be happy at yourself and with your own body! The superficial society is highly pervasive, unfortunately.



Anonymous said: This blog deserves more credit.

And you deserve credit for messaging me this :)



Anonymous said: You probably don't know how much impact you've had on my life...

I thought I was all alone too. I never knew anyone would take this blog seriously, in all honesty haha.

And, yeah, I probably don’t. But that’s the beauty of it. But I am highly glad, you beautiful anon.